With the dramatic shift in social values and human behaviour in the modern generation, people should, in general, prioritise their hard-earned savings to maintain their own health and quality of life to the fullest, whenever affordable, rather than sacrificing a healthy life only to leave it behind as inheritance.
As we grow older, this issue can become worrying and depressing, especially when one enters the senior years and becomes dependent. Negative thoughts about possible circumstances and outcomes often arise. At times, some even hesitate to buy a good walking stick, order authentic food, or dream of a better mode of travel, fearing it may be micromanaged by their heirs. While many would agree that this is still better than seeing a non-blood relation enjoy one’s treasures, it is equally important to strike a balance and prioritise life in a way that allows us to enjoy the fruits of our hard-earned assets through good health and comfort, particularly during a happy retirement.
Nevertheless, some wise or underprivileged people, having lived a better lifestyle, wholeheartedly invest in their heirs by providing quality education locally or abroad and improving their standard of living. This makes sense, as it helps ensure they do not become a financial burden later in life, while also teaching children to grow into responsible adults and parents.
In conclusion, though it is sad to say, as one grows frail and feeble with age, most wish to write or share a beautiful itinerary, hoping for a graceful final journey. Sadly, no one truly gets to see whether that desired farewell was fulfilled, except perhaps a lucky few. Let us believe that self-care is not selfish, and so we should cherish living the healthy and deserving lifestyle we have worked so hard to earn.
